Quote: (12-15-2010 03:52 PM)bluewater7 Wrote:
its almost like you really need to go to the small towns and hold a recruitment convention where you can try to catch all the hot chicks before they become whores but the problem is they will likely want marriage so WTF. How about just going out and finding and banging a hot chick like in the US?
this is kind of funny. one of the primary reasons that Thailand is so popular, and likely that it is even on your radar as a destination, is the culture that makes allowances for such widespread prostitution. When most guys go on and on about how Thailand is so great, the subtext is that its because the girls are so easy. Its not that the non-whores are easy, but that there is a lot of 'soft' prostitution by whores that guys delude themselves into thinking really isn't prostitution. The difference between these women and non-prostitutes will be night and day. In most Asian cultures, its looked down upon to marry outside of race, let alone bang someone outside of their race outside of marriage. Non-whores that do this are considered rebels (sleeping with foreigners outside of marriage), and being very bad in terms of how their mainstream society would judge them. For the most part, Thai women that don't need the money need a very good reason to date a foreigner.
The 'WTF' statement should be made by them, for you thinking that their values match that of the average western woman. Asian cultures are insular and xenophobic. Thais are especially gracious, probably due to their religion, to foreigners. But don't ever think that you ever aren't really just being tolerated.
My point is that the sense of entitlement to their non-whore women comes off as a little misplaced. You'd have to do a lot to earn that place with a non-whore, or non-rebel (most Asian rebellious women being whores in one way or another, in my experience), and if it didn't take very much to earn it then she probably is or was a whore.
My advice is to enjoy the soft prostitution and stop worrying about it so much. Prostitutes are there to give you what you want, and are honest in their intentions with you (unless you are a complete sucker). Its an honest relationship that circumvents your having to mislead a girl who isn't interested in being a prostitute or fucking a foreigner who wasn't serious about her. There is an entire sector of their culture set up to service your specific need. Why go outside of it, unless you wanted a woman for a serious relationship?