Where are you from, Archer? Being embarrassed for cultural reasons makes it seem like you're definitely not American.
Anyways, no, it's not real common for someone to do this type of thing with someone they don't know really well, but some American women take a real pride in being brash and informal. Maybe it was just her personality. It could signify that she feels comfortable with you - if you're already having sex this doesn't seem too out of the ordinary, especially if she thinks of you as a boyfriend. You've swapped fluids and for a lot of people sharing food isn't going to be a big deal after that.
If it bothers you, just tell her though. Different things bother different people when it comes to food and there's nothing wrong with that. One of my brothers, for example, has had a thing his whole life about his food that if someone took a drink out of his glass or a bite off his plate, he refused to touch the food again. It was just his thing. For the rest of us it was no big deal and we found it strange but that was just him so we learned to leave his food alone. We teased him a little bit about it but no big deal.
There is something wrong with you just sitting there red-faced while she picks at your plate and not saying anything, on the other hand. LOL Try to make it habit to speak your mind more often. You can do that without being over-confrontational.
Anyways, no, it's not real common for someone to do this type of thing with someone they don't know really well, but some American women take a real pride in being brash and informal. Maybe it was just her personality. It could signify that she feels comfortable with you - if you're already having sex this doesn't seem too out of the ordinary, especially if she thinks of you as a boyfriend. You've swapped fluids and for a lot of people sharing food isn't going to be a big deal after that.
If it bothers you, just tell her though. Different things bother different people when it comes to food and there's nothing wrong with that. One of my brothers, for example, has had a thing his whole life about his food that if someone took a drink out of his glass or a bite off his plate, he refused to touch the food again. It was just his thing. For the rest of us it was no big deal and we found it strange but that was just him so we learned to leave his food alone. We teased him a little bit about it but no big deal.
There is something wrong with you just sitting there red-faced while she picks at your plate and not saying anything, on the other hand. LOL Try to make it habit to speak your mind more often. You can do that without being over-confrontational.
Beyond All Seas
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling