[reaper23]

(12-25-2013 01:43 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(12-25-2013 01:04 PM)reaper23 Wrote:  

after my girlfriend was pregnant, one night in bed, i just looked over at her and said, lets get married. she said of course!

i got her a nice ring, but nothing too crazy. quality over quantity ($3500).

then i told her, we're never getting married

and she said, of course!

so now we're just permanently engaged. her sister got engaged and married since our "engagement"

guess its been about 18-20 months now

not a single plan in the works

cool way to sustain a main chick... their reflex loyalty to the symbol is strong, and it chases me away as a player.
I'm assuming you kept the kid, so she's got a lot of security there in the isa, but you aren't cutting her in for half of all future earnings i don't think...lawyers....?

kid brings child support obligations married or otherwise

common law marriage only occurs if both parties hold each other out as husband/wife and intend to be married

pretty sure i'm good

plus we keep totally separate bank accounts and then contribute to a joint account. nice system