Good reply fisto. So in other words you do use direct openers like the one I posted before. I guess I should still try a few more times with direct openers to get an average of success.
After all, when you can't think of anything to say in a given context/scenario, the only that's left is a sincere direct opener
After all, when you can't think of anything to say in a given context/scenario, the only that's left is a sincere direct opener