Quote: (11-30-2013 12:06 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Build a routine. You'll win that way.
Understated and profound advice.
Somewhat ironically, routine is the path out of a rut. Don't try and do it overnight. Just slowly add one thing at a time. I've found one new activity every 6 to 8 weeks is about right. For instance you might find it hard to immediately go to the gym four days a week. So just go two for a month or two, then go three, then go four. Don't worry about going out and approaching every night. Just find one or two bars that have a vibe you like. Go to them on the same days every week. Do that a for a few months. Then add another night out. Eventually you'll start seeing the same people over and over. Some of them will be cute girls. It will be much easier to go up and approach those girls and they'll be more receptive because you'll seem familiar.