Quote: (11-18-2013 09:33 PM)Jura Wrote:
A few thoughts on this:
First, there's a huge difference between what could be considered a "boring lifestyle" and a truly "boring personality". While I don't have any problem with the former, the latter is usually umbearable. The thread title suggests she's literally a boring woman while your post simply describes the lifestyle of a traditional young non-American woman. You need to figure out which one it is...
Another thing to consider is your energy level. I don't see the point of pursuing a LTR of any kind with a laid back kind of girl if you're a high energy level guy who likes to party with his gf all the time. Again, where do you fit on that scale?
One last thing, how is her not doing drugs or drinking a bad thing? Would you rather try to find a potential LTR girl in a bar mostly filled with club sluts?
She's a boring lifestyle person, her personality is fine. My energy level is pretty chill, I'm in my late 30's and I'm over the partying thing myself.
Her not doing drugs or drinking is not a problem with me. I don't do drugs and I rarely drink. There's no chance in hell of me LTRing a woman I met in a bar or a club. Most of the people that I know who are married met their partners through social circle, school or work.
Quote: (11-18-2013 10:05 PM)Windom Earle Wrote:
Let's not get ahead of ourselves here.
You've been on "a few dates" with her, which I take to mean at least 3, and no bang yet. I would hope that you've at least kissed her by now(?)
3 dates, no kiss yet. I know that sounds beta but I have other women on the side so I've no strong urge to jump her bones. After I left our date I drove to one of my regulars and banged her.
Quote: (11-19-2013 07:57 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Indeed, a truly conservative woman stays trim primarily through her genetics and eating habits. She often appears plain in her appearance.
She takes care of herself, looks good but she doesn't dress sexy. Any guys who've dealt with FOB Chinese women will have an idea what I'm talking about.
Quote: (11-19-2013 10:30 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
@DaveR
It would be a mistake to assume the girl's culture overrides her biology.
She may seem "boring" to the outsider, but within her culture she may be one of the worst. Chinese girls from the mainland still want Alpha bucks. Ukrainian chicks and other eastern Europeans are just as mercenary. Ask any man about the women in his life and you will hear an earful.
WIA
I have to disagree there, I'm around Chinese people a lot and some of the women are married to total betas.