Here are some examples of fails over the past couple of months:
1)Talk with girl at a bar for about 20-40 minutes. Kino on arms, legs and hips. Bar is about to close. Ask her for a cigarette. She says she doesn't have any on her. Then, she remembers she has some in her car. We go out to car, smoke outside in front of her car. I tell her she should come over for a night cap. Basically, she responds by saying, I'm not gonna fuck you tonight(which I know I should've took as a sign that she did). Anyway, this disrupts my game. She gives me a weird look(hard for me to describe but I couldn't tell if she was waiting for me to do something or keeping a careful eye on me). I want to kiss her but I don't. I don't want her to think I'm going to rape her or something. Get the number, never see her again.
2)Hang out for happy hour with grad school friends. One of the girls starts warming up to me. She has a fiance that she lives with. Before, I never really got a vibe from her, but tonight, we talk in-depth, she plays footsies, wants to go where I go etc. At end of night, I kind of get cock-blocked by a friend's friend. However, she asks me at the very end, what are you doing because my other friend is going somewhere else. I say I don't know. She leaves. The friend's friend says I fucked up and he thought I was with her and would've stole her if he knew. I was scared because she is in my grad school program, is engaged and I was burned before from aggressively pursuing a girl in same program.
Currently, I'm beginning to get consistent in terms of holding conversations til the very end right before the bounce. Before, I had problems with ejecting early but this has been greatly improved. Now, I'm beginning to settle for the number regularly. I'm scared that they think it will be obvious that I want sex, and they don't. What are some ways to ease the bounce? I feel like asking to bounce to my place necessarily means we're gonna fuck- for the girl. What are some good lines/moves? What are some of the things I could've done differently in the examples?
1)Talk with girl at a bar for about 20-40 minutes. Kino on arms, legs and hips. Bar is about to close. Ask her for a cigarette. She says she doesn't have any on her. Then, she remembers she has some in her car. We go out to car, smoke outside in front of her car. I tell her she should come over for a night cap. Basically, she responds by saying, I'm not gonna fuck you tonight(which I know I should've took as a sign that she did). Anyway, this disrupts my game. She gives me a weird look(hard for me to describe but I couldn't tell if she was waiting for me to do something or keeping a careful eye on me). I want to kiss her but I don't. I don't want her to think I'm going to rape her or something. Get the number, never see her again.
2)Hang out for happy hour with grad school friends. One of the girls starts warming up to me. She has a fiance that she lives with. Before, I never really got a vibe from her, but tonight, we talk in-depth, she plays footsies, wants to go where I go etc. At end of night, I kind of get cock-blocked by a friend's friend. However, she asks me at the very end, what are you doing because my other friend is going somewhere else. I say I don't know. She leaves. The friend's friend says I fucked up and he thought I was with her and would've stole her if he knew. I was scared because she is in my grad school program, is engaged and I was burned before from aggressively pursuing a girl in same program.
Currently, I'm beginning to get consistent in terms of holding conversations til the very end right before the bounce. Before, I had problems with ejecting early but this has been greatly improved. Now, I'm beginning to settle for the number regularly. I'm scared that they think it will be obvious that I want sex, and they don't. What are some ways to ease the bounce? I feel like asking to bounce to my place necessarily means we're gonna fuck- for the girl. What are some good lines/moves? What are some of the things I could've done differently in the examples?