I'm not lying to myself. As I told you, we didn't have that much of an emotional bond (note: I started reading about game *before* getting into this relationship.) As a result, I'm aware of a couple of things
- There are a lot of women in this world, and there is no reason to get hung up on one
- Once a chick has lost respect for you, it's pretty hard getting her back
which is why I believe a proper LTR (i.e. say 2 years or more) is now impossible with this girl.
However, since I was not gaming new chicks *that* actively when I was involved with her, I'm going to have to put in some hard work to get a new girl. I'm currently swamped by a ton of work, so I don't have *that* much time to get into game. (Stress caused by this work was the result of some of the neediness that I displayed with her.)
However, I have been flirting with, and going on outings with one other girl, but haven't gotten her to the lay stage yet, again, because I'm *really* busy.
Hence, if you want me to say it, yes, I want her back, but only because I'm too busy right now to get a lot of options for fresh tail. I know for certain that whatever "relationship" we end up having (if we do have it) is going to end up like the Spanish Armada. The good thing is that I'm prepared for it, so why not stage a "get back together" and then dump her once I have options? That would teach her not to dump people randomly (she's broken up with four previous boyfriends this way, all of whom handled it like mewling betas and agreed to be "just friends" with her. Trust me, I would be doing all men a favour.)
- There are a lot of women in this world, and there is no reason to get hung up on one
- Once a chick has lost respect for you, it's pretty hard getting her back
which is why I believe a proper LTR (i.e. say 2 years or more) is now impossible with this girl.
However, since I was not gaming new chicks *that* actively when I was involved with her, I'm going to have to put in some hard work to get a new girl. I'm currently swamped by a ton of work, so I don't have *that* much time to get into game. (Stress caused by this work was the result of some of the neediness that I displayed with her.)
However, I have been flirting with, and going on outings with one other girl, but haven't gotten her to the lay stage yet, again, because I'm *really* busy.
Hence, if you want me to say it, yes, I want her back, but only because I'm too busy right now to get a lot of options for fresh tail. I know for certain that whatever "relationship" we end up having (if we do have it) is going to end up like the Spanish Armada. The good thing is that I'm prepared for it, so why not stage a "get back together" and then dump her once I have options? That would teach her not to dump people randomly (she's broken up with four previous boyfriends this way, all of whom handled it like mewling betas and agreed to be "just friends" with her. Trust me, I would be doing all men a favour.)