2 compliment questions in 1 day.
Practical side
Hats are an Achilles heel.
It's usually fat/drunk/ugly chicks that want attention and will steal your attention getter, and there's very little that you can do about it. Their sense of entitlement is enough to make your blood boil. You can't put your hands on her w/o the white knight brigade and the law coming after you.
At best when she returns it to you, you can refuse it, and insult her.
But even then, you're not winning.
At best, you can have a bunch of the same cheap hat and just take it as a loss.
Back in the day when game was more about technique and tactics, a player would have props that he could give away. Costume jewelry, necklaces, bracelets, et cetera , so if the interaction was going well, but not perfectly, he could end on a different note - "When I see you again, you can give it to me".
Sometimes it would result in a bang, but most of it was for his own ego, his inner game...the attitude of abundance.
Mindset Side.
A compliment is an approach, a common, and invitation to chat with her.
What you say isn't as important as how you respond.
Everyone wants to be witty and have the perfect chess move answer for everything a girl says.
That's not the game. You will obsess over the ideal response for x number of situations you may encounter. The male hamster will spin his wheel.
Every once in a while you can dazzle a chick with your wit and intellect - but getting a "you're so smart and funny" isn't necessarily getting you closer to taking her back to the Hyundai for a little hide the salami.
What everyone expects
1) Her - "Oh I like your coat"
You - "Thanks"
interaction ends
2) Her - "Oh I like you cat"
You - "Hey baby, blah blah blah"
interaction ends
These chicks aren't rocket scientists, but they're experts of conversation because that's what they do ALL DAY. There is a pattern how people talk.
If you want to do verbal game and use your words and actions to paint pictures, to draw her emotions, you have to break her out of the pattern that she expects.
So next time a girl is loving your peacoat,
Get her to walk over to you, and tell her to feel it.
Then feel her. (start touching a chick as early as feasible! Get her used to what your warm hands feel like)
Then you take her on a journey with what you say.
"I've got a feeling about you"
Then
Maybe it's how the coat feels, and how it makes her feel.
Maybe it's a story on how you got the coat (and the story involves a girl)
That's how you turn that into an opener.
You break the pattern that she's setting up.
She's never going to expect some shit like that. Cause most of her days she spends talking to other social robots that react the same way to the same stimuli.
But her subconscious desperately wants something new, something novel, something different. Different in a way she might not be able to appreciate, or even articulate.
So many people think the game is played by what you wear, how tall you are, how much of your muscle tone shows, where you live, the kind of money you make, how many smooth lines and routines you can trot out on a moment's notice.
They think sex is about hammering a chick for 75 minutes with 14 inch dick.
It's not.
The magic is happening within her skull, with what you say, what you do, and how you make her feel.
That's why our primary weapons are our words, our touch. Our secondary weapons are movement - be it dancing, twirling her around. The alcohol if necessary and logistics when favorable - help her to act on her sexual impulses - but those aren't necessary.
A girl can drive 6 hours to see you based on what you say to her.
And that's where you play the game.
Everything else you do outside of getting into a chick's mind, that's primarily for you.
That's to make you feel comfortable.
WIA
Practical side
Hats are an Achilles heel.
It's usually fat/drunk/ugly chicks that want attention and will steal your attention getter, and there's very little that you can do about it. Their sense of entitlement is enough to make your blood boil. You can't put your hands on her w/o the white knight brigade and the law coming after you.
At best when she returns it to you, you can refuse it, and insult her.
But even then, you're not winning.
At best, you can have a bunch of the same cheap hat and just take it as a loss.
Back in the day when game was more about technique and tactics, a player would have props that he could give away. Costume jewelry, necklaces, bracelets, et cetera , so if the interaction was going well, but not perfectly, he could end on a different note - "When I see you again, you can give it to me".
Sometimes it would result in a bang, but most of it was for his own ego, his inner game...the attitude of abundance.
Mindset Side.
A compliment is an approach, a common, and invitation to chat with her.
What you say isn't as important as how you respond.
Everyone wants to be witty and have the perfect chess move answer for everything a girl says.
That's not the game. You will obsess over the ideal response for x number of situations you may encounter. The male hamster will spin his wheel.
Every once in a while you can dazzle a chick with your wit and intellect - but getting a "you're so smart and funny" isn't necessarily getting you closer to taking her back to the Hyundai for a little hide the salami.
What everyone expects
1) Her - "Oh I like your coat"
You - "Thanks"
interaction ends
2) Her - "Oh I like you cat"
You - "Hey baby, blah blah blah"
interaction ends
These chicks aren't rocket scientists, but they're experts of conversation because that's what they do ALL DAY. There is a pattern how people talk.
If you want to do verbal game and use your words and actions to paint pictures, to draw her emotions, you have to break her out of the pattern that she expects.
So next time a girl is loving your peacoat,
Get her to walk over to you, and tell her to feel it.
Then feel her. (start touching a chick as early as feasible! Get her used to what your warm hands feel like)
Then you take her on a journey with what you say.
"I've got a feeling about you"
Then
Maybe it's how the coat feels, and how it makes her feel.
Maybe it's a story on how you got the coat (and the story involves a girl)
That's how you turn that into an opener.
You break the pattern that she's setting up.
She's never going to expect some shit like that. Cause most of her days she spends talking to other social robots that react the same way to the same stimuli.
But her subconscious desperately wants something new, something novel, something different. Different in a way she might not be able to appreciate, or even articulate.
So many people think the game is played by what you wear, how tall you are, how much of your muscle tone shows, where you live, the kind of money you make, how many smooth lines and routines you can trot out on a moment's notice.
They think sex is about hammering a chick for 75 minutes with 14 inch dick.
It's not.
The magic is happening within her skull, with what you say, what you do, and how you make her feel.
That's why our primary weapons are our words, our touch. Our secondary weapons are movement - be it dancing, twirling her around. The alcohol if necessary and logistics when favorable - help her to act on her sexual impulses - but those aren't necessary.
A girl can drive 6 hours to see you based on what you say to her.
And that's where you play the game.
Everything else you do outside of getting into a chick's mind, that's primarily for you.
That's to make you feel comfortable.
WIA