My last three dates said, "I don't want to date you". What am I doing wrong?
The first one I met three weeks ago on a Friday night at a meetup function. I get her number. Later that night and after I go home, I realize that she was into me. The next day, I text her at 10 pm to come out to a bar. She comes. We talk for an hour and a half. I go to kiss her and she says, "I don't want to date you".
The second one I met two weeks ago on a Friday night at a meetup function. Before I go home, I realize that she is available. I ask her to go see a play with me the next day. We see the play and then go to a bar for drinks afterwards. Walking back from the bar, I grab her hand. She says, "I don't want to date you". We walk back to our cars. I hug her and see the kiss is open, so we kiss. And then say goodbye. The next time I text her, she clarifies with a text message and says she was sending mixed signals and she meant what she said.
The third one I met at a dance class. I see her a few times and she gives seems interested eg. she asks me questions. I get her number. Tonight was the date. We go to a restaurant and then see a concert. Leaving the concert, I grab her hand and she says, "I don't want to date you."
What am I doing wrong here?
The first one I met three weeks ago on a Friday night at a meetup function. I get her number. Later that night and after I go home, I realize that she was into me. The next day, I text her at 10 pm to come out to a bar. She comes. We talk for an hour and a half. I go to kiss her and she says, "I don't want to date you".
The second one I met two weeks ago on a Friday night at a meetup function. Before I go home, I realize that she is available. I ask her to go see a play with me the next day. We see the play and then go to a bar for drinks afterwards. Walking back from the bar, I grab her hand. She says, "I don't want to date you". We walk back to our cars. I hug her and see the kiss is open, so we kiss. And then say goodbye. The next time I text her, she clarifies with a text message and says she was sending mixed signals and she meant what she said.
The third one I met at a dance class. I see her a few times and she gives seems interested eg. she asks me questions. I get her number. Tonight was the date. We go to a restaurant and then see a concert. Leaving the concert, I grab her hand and she says, "I don't want to date you."
What am I doing wrong here?