To be honest I always find it humorous listening to men talk about sex like it's something they DO to women instead of something they experience with a woman. To most men sex is like dancing to some sexual house music: you are dancing apart from the woman and you are dancing to impress her. Men never really stop to think if a woman would really like something or not. They learn about sex from other men and porn movies. It never occurs to them that a woman may just be going along with them to please them - thinking well if he likes that, ok. Why are American women acting like wanna be porn starlets because they look at porn movies and go oh, ok, I guess that's what men want. The irony of it is that neither of them really want half the shit they do or see. Most men and women are just following a script like they they do with most things in their lives e.g. I am suppose to love getting wasted then having some crazy sex that I can't even feel or remember. (Ye, that sounds like a great plan for some great sex.)
If you want to learn about great sex go to the masters: the Brasilians. They don't have to get drunk to have sex, actually they would prefer not to. Great sex is like a dancing with a woman together - like a Latin dance e.g. salsa. It doesn't matter how good you are, if the woman isn't a decent dancer herself you are not going to enjoy it that much. Have you ever tried dancing with a woman that couldn't dance? It isn't much fun. Most women do not/cannot have an orgasm the first few times they have sex with a man because they are just not comfortable enough. It means they can't really enjoy themselves because they are too concerned about how they look and what you think of them. But most men are oblivious to this because their are primarily concerned about their own physical pleasure. Less than 10% of the women are out have the potential to be good lovers. (In a country like Brasil it's much higher...) What this means is that 90% of the time if you are just Ok and you can provide some emotional fulfillment it will be good enough. You don't need to waste your time and energy doing all kinds of crazy shit she won't be able to appreciate anyway. (Roosh wrote about this in one of his post: that he stopped even trying to be good, it was just a waste of time. Here http://www.rooshv.com/the-female-orgasm-is-trivial)
I already wrote about this in this thread: http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-25274.html
If you want to learn about great sex go to the masters: the Brasilians. They don't have to get drunk to have sex, actually they would prefer not to. Great sex is like a dancing with a woman together - like a Latin dance e.g. salsa. It doesn't matter how good you are, if the woman isn't a decent dancer herself you are not going to enjoy it that much. Have you ever tried dancing with a woman that couldn't dance? It isn't much fun. Most women do not/cannot have an orgasm the first few times they have sex with a man because they are just not comfortable enough. It means they can't really enjoy themselves because they are too concerned about how they look and what you think of them. But most men are oblivious to this because their are primarily concerned about their own physical pleasure. Less than 10% of the women are out have the potential to be good lovers. (In a country like Brasil it's much higher...) What this means is that 90% of the time if you are just Ok and you can provide some emotional fulfillment it will be good enough. You don't need to waste your time and energy doing all kinds of crazy shit she won't be able to appreciate anyway. (Roosh wrote about this in one of his post: that he stopped even trying to be good, it was just a waste of time. Here http://www.rooshv.com/the-female-orgasm-is-trivial)
I already wrote about this in this thread: http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-25274.html