Quote: (07-24-2013 02:28 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:
Quote: (07-23-2013 12:09 PM)MikeCF Wrote:
Your issue is likely psychological but you can often solve psychological problems buy changing your physiology.
The girl could also be part of the issue here. She does certain things that turn me off. Like:
- Talk about other guys
- Is on her phone every 15 minutes (even though I tell her to put it away)
- Doesn't talk dirty to me when having sex
- Gets pissed when I am not being 100% nice to her. Causes a whole scene after.
- This girl is fairly tall. Before sex she flat out told me: "I could have had more guys if I was shorter"
But she does some cool things though, like cook for me.
Will check out the 'yourbrainonporn' links as well.
From your OP, you indicated your problem is maintaining an erection, not actually getting one.
Roosh's simple boner test is right.
If you are getting an erection, she sufficiently arouses you, I would would assert that the stuff you assign to her is not the problem.
From someone who also had to ween off too much porn, you say you lose concentration during sex and it affectsr your erection, and that to me indicates your issue has more to do with the porn you've consumed from a young age, how you've wired sex, how you've conditioned yourself to how it is meant to be.
The act of sex, not the girl herself, is the let down.
You're pounding away and it's underwhelming, that is why your mind wanders.