Quote: (10-27-2013 12:58 PM)puckman Wrote:
Quote: (10-27-2013 12:52 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:
The Dads Divorce list that puckman posted should be legendary.
It is and I was lucky enough to find it at the outset of mine. I had to direct my lawyer for everything, all based on the strategy I came up with. The results of mine were fair and equitable, and we avoided court. Hearing the tales I do from other men, I was lucky. Divorce literally kills men, and ambivalence is usually the cause.
I completely agree with puckman that a big reason why so many men get screwed in family court is their own indecision and passivity. In other words, they are beta until the bitter end, and this crushes them even in divorce.
In a divorce, you must be alpha and fight for everything.