@chambs88 It is normal to feel a bit weird when you break someone's personal space but think of it this way there is nothing stopping them from moving back. When you do this you are also sub-communicating sexual intent so if she finds you sexually unappealing she will move back. Anytime a girl moves back it's not a good sign so it's also a good test.
@Teutatis Approaching is the easiest part yet for all men, for some reason, it's the hardest. The first thing you need to do change your internal view of it and what it means. Remove from your thoughts that you are "picking up" girls. You are just being social. You are not trying to "pickup" anyone. And because you are just being friendly and social IF she acts rude in any way it's because she doesn't have social manners. Keep repeating this to yourself every day and every time you see a girl you want to approach: only a Yes has to power to change your life, a No cannot. If a girl rejects you in any way, it's a No, but nothing in your life will change. She doesn't take anything away from you. Whatever you feel, is because of yourself not because of her. If you decide it means nothing, then that's exactly what it means. The next problem most guys have is: I don't know what to say. Again, you are just being social, talk about something in the area or talk about the event. This is called a situational opener. For example, you are in a bar, talk about whatever is on TV or something interesting in the bar or it could also just be a current situation e.g. Did you hear that Zimmerman got off? What do you think about that?
@Teutatis Approaching is the easiest part yet for all men, for some reason, it's the hardest. The first thing you need to do change your internal view of it and what it means. Remove from your thoughts that you are "picking up" girls. You are just being social. You are not trying to "pickup" anyone. And because you are just being friendly and social IF she acts rude in any way it's because she doesn't have social manners. Keep repeating this to yourself every day and every time you see a girl you want to approach: only a Yes has to power to change your life, a No cannot. If a girl rejects you in any way, it's a No, but nothing in your life will change. She doesn't take anything away from you. Whatever you feel, is because of yourself not because of her. If you decide it means nothing, then that's exactly what it means. The next problem most guys have is: I don't know what to say. Again, you are just being social, talk about something in the area or talk about the event. This is called a situational opener. For example, you are in a bar, talk about whatever is on TV or something interesting in the bar or it could also just be a current situation e.g. Did you hear that Zimmerman got off? What do you think about that?