Hi all, first time here & have a question.
I've been in a long distance relationship (I note some of you would stop me right here but...) for 9 months. We fly to visit about once a month, but after a 2 month holdup she calls me last week to tell me she's met a guy and she is going to sleep with him but she wants to keep an open relationship with me.
Part of me is good with this as it works both ways, and I'm into her enough to see if it works. The rest of me would rather I mess around and she did not, or neither of us even, but... any of you guys have advice on how to get over the jealousy thing? I'm not there and it is not like she's cheating so much as just being practical, but it still bothers the hell out of me.
thanks in advance...
I've been in a long distance relationship (I note some of you would stop me right here but...) for 9 months. We fly to visit about once a month, but after a 2 month holdup she calls me last week to tell me she's met a guy and she is going to sleep with him but she wants to keep an open relationship with me.
Part of me is good with this as it works both ways, and I'm into her enough to see if it works. The rest of me would rather I mess around and she did not, or neither of us even, but... any of you guys have advice on how to get over the jealousy thing? I'm not there and it is not like she's cheating so much as just being practical, but it still bothers the hell out of me.
thanks in advance...