SMH at a couple of these posts, especially the "black men don't like eating pussy" comment...
Anyway, you gotta plant the seeds early. Start a conversation about sex/BJ's at some point and say "I hate when girls just put their mouths on my dick and nod there heads up and down like they're agreeing with something I just said. That's not a BJ." then tell her what you like. It's gonna result in either her qualifying and wanting to prove she's not worthless at giving BJ's (because all girls are in competition with each other), or she won't wanna blow you because she doesn't want you to know she's worthless at giving BJ's. Win/Win if you ask me.
Anyway, you gotta plant the seeds early. Start a conversation about sex/BJ's at some point and say "I hate when girls just put their mouths on my dick and nod there heads up and down like they're agreeing with something I just said. That's not a BJ." then tell her what you like. It's gonna result in either her qualifying and wanting to prove she's not worthless at giving BJ's (because all girls are in competition with each other), or she won't wanna blow you because she doesn't want you to know she's worthless at giving BJ's. Win/Win if you ask me.
"What's the difference between us.
We can start at the penis.
Or scream I just don't give a fuck and see who really means it."
- Marshall Bruce Mathers III