feomuerto,
Technically, this isn't "same night lays", this is more, "first date swoop". But that is neither here nor there.
I think the issue is "I'll have her over on a day1 at my place with a movie or something." It is not exciting enough to get the blood pumping for a swoop. The pendulum isn't swinging enough.
Try to go out with her and have fun, and booze more.
After you have swooped her then shift into the "I'll have her over at my place with a movie or something."
Technically, this isn't "same night lays", this is more, "first date swoop". But that is neither here nor there.
I think the issue is "I'll have her over on a day1 at my place with a movie or something." It is not exciting enough to get the blood pumping for a swoop. The pendulum isn't swinging enough.
Try to go out with her and have fun, and booze more.
After you have swooped her then shift into the "I'll have her over at my place with a movie or something."