WIA,
I see, go day game.
rivelino,
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2. i am not sure you should have called her, does anyone talk on the phone any more? but the more worrisome part is, i think she shit tested you, and you failed. think of the scenario: let's say you called her on a tuesday and said, "hey let's meet up on thursday", and she replies, "no let's do something this weekend", and on the fly, real time, you say, "okay" -- that could be interpreted as a sign of weakness, of over-neediness, of too much interest. i still find it crazy, but many or most girls are like this now, especially in america. if you are too nice to them, they see that as being needy and beta and too accomodating. girls are looking for a strong man, not a pushover."
Ok, what would have been a good response? saying "OK nevermind?"
Beside that, I'll try your advice.
Ignore for two weeks, then try to get a date and close the deal or forget about her.
Thanks a lot!
EDIT:
Maybe just text her to come to my apt? go for all or nothing
I see, go day game.
rivelino,
"
2. i am not sure you should have called her, does anyone talk on the phone any more? but the more worrisome part is, i think she shit tested you, and you failed. think of the scenario: let's say you called her on a tuesday and said, "hey let's meet up on thursday", and she replies, "no let's do something this weekend", and on the fly, real time, you say, "okay" -- that could be interpreted as a sign of weakness, of over-neediness, of too much interest. i still find it crazy, but many or most girls are like this now, especially in america. if you are too nice to them, they see that as being needy and beta and too accomodating. girls are looking for a strong man, not a pushover."
Ok, what would have been a good response? saying "OK nevermind?"
Beside that, I'll try your advice.
Ignore for two weeks, then try to get a date and close the deal or forget about her.
Thanks a lot!
EDIT:
Maybe just text her to come to my apt? go for all or nothing