if you start at proactively meeting women or you're not happy with the current state of your game or how comfortable you feel talking / flirting / leading / pulling the trigger then consider these suggestions.
- GAME ALL GIRLS -
basically, don't limit yourself to gaming your types only or the hot ones only etc. why? think about it, if you limit yourself like that then how many legit interactions will you have? 3-5 per day/night? that's really few. think how much time it will take you to get some experience by having few sporadic interactions here and there.
instead, talk/flirt to girls in general without labeling their hotness. even older ladies. for example.. you ride a bike and stop at light next to the 40 something woman, talk to her, ask about her favorite bike routes, tell her you like talking to mature people cause girls your age only care about alcohol and tv shows, tell her you like her voice and that you wish you GF would have the same, flirt like that, etc, you don't have to pull her to the fucking bushes behind you, just flirt to get another reference experience.
why?
you will develop faster. you will get more experience and internalize mechanics of social interaction faster. you can practice on all girls the same thing you need to do with your type of girls ie: opening / flirting / touching / leading / pulling [nobody says you have to bang them![[Image: amuse.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/amuse.gif)
]. so when you meet your type girl you will know what to do in this higher pressure situation [hot girl your type in your face can be bit stressful ]
remember that every girl has something to offer. it's much better to know/meet any girl than no girl. you never know what's up. even if she's not attractive. she can have cute friends she can introduce you to. she can social proof you in the venue [any girl is better than solo]. she can give you nice ego boost and reinforce you do something right by reacting so well to your game which amps up your confidence in general. you can strengthen your abundance by having those so so girls loving you. you can fuck with hot girls by showing them texts you receive to get some jealousy going on and show off how in demand you are.
- COMMIT TO EVERY INTERACTION -
at least try. the whole point is to not place additional value to the hot ones. that's when you might stress about messing up then get all outcome dependent and psych yourself out of it before even trying. to avoid this try to game every girl for real. it doesn't mean to be aggressive or pushy at all. it means try to engage all girls hard.
stop playing value games. instead of judging girls whether they're hot enough or not etc think how awesome it would be to get them totally hooked on you. enjoy the process of getting girls emotional and crazy about you. that should be the driving force behind your actions. that's what should turn you on, fantasizing about getting her into you and begging you to be with her. that's what got me excited, getting a girl so into about me [instead of trying to nail her asap]. that's great frame cause you're process oriented hence your ego is removed. besides, intimacy is given when girl's into you.
with that mindset when you finally meet a hottie she's just a chick in your eyes. you don't feel the need to bring your so called "A game" since you just do the same process as with every other girl.
good luck!
- GAME ALL GIRLS -
basically, don't limit yourself to gaming your types only or the hot ones only etc. why? think about it, if you limit yourself like that then how many legit interactions will you have? 3-5 per day/night? that's really few. think how much time it will take you to get some experience by having few sporadic interactions here and there.
instead, talk/flirt to girls in general without labeling their hotness. even older ladies. for example.. you ride a bike and stop at light next to the 40 something woman, talk to her, ask about her favorite bike routes, tell her you like talking to mature people cause girls your age only care about alcohol and tv shows, tell her you like her voice and that you wish you GF would have the same, flirt like that, etc, you don't have to pull her to the fucking bushes behind you, just flirt to get another reference experience.
why?
you will develop faster. you will get more experience and internalize mechanics of social interaction faster. you can practice on all girls the same thing you need to do with your type of girls ie: opening / flirting / touching / leading / pulling [nobody says you have to bang them
]. so when you meet your type girl you will know what to do in this higher pressure situation [hot girl your type in your face can be bit stressful ]remember that every girl has something to offer. it's much better to know/meet any girl than no girl. you never know what's up. even if she's not attractive. she can have cute friends she can introduce you to. she can social proof you in the venue [any girl is better than solo]. she can give you nice ego boost and reinforce you do something right by reacting so well to your game which amps up your confidence in general. you can strengthen your abundance by having those so so girls loving you. you can fuck with hot girls by showing them texts you receive to get some jealousy going on and show off how in demand you are.
- COMMIT TO EVERY INTERACTION -
at least try. the whole point is to not place additional value to the hot ones. that's when you might stress about messing up then get all outcome dependent and psych yourself out of it before even trying. to avoid this try to game every girl for real. it doesn't mean to be aggressive or pushy at all. it means try to engage all girls hard.
stop playing value games. instead of judging girls whether they're hot enough or not etc think how awesome it would be to get them totally hooked on you. enjoy the process of getting girls emotional and crazy about you. that should be the driving force behind your actions. that's what should turn you on, fantasizing about getting her into you and begging you to be with her. that's what got me excited, getting a girl so into about me [instead of trying to nail her asap]. that's great frame cause you're process oriented hence your ego is removed. besides, intimacy is given when girl's into you.
with that mindset when you finally meet a hottie she's just a chick in your eyes. you don't feel the need to bring your so called "A game" since you just do the same process as with every other girl.
good luck!