Quote: (05-02-2013 09:48 PM)tiggaling Wrote:
I'm with the Taoists/Tantrists who believe the ejaculating multiple times can weaken your sex drive or even vital energy.
I prefer to ejaculate once... then just have intercourse for as long as I want to and not ejaculate a second time. I find the 2nd time weakens me and so then it takes a much longer to bounce back from that into wanting to have sex again.
But if I ejaculate for round 2, 12-24 hours later, or even even up two-three days later, then I can just increase the energy and enjoy it and want to have a lot of sex without ejaculating.
The best understanding of Taoist ideas I think you can find in Dan Reid's excellent book, "Sex, Health and Longevity"
http://www.amazon.com/Tao-Health-Sex-Lon...067164811X
One of the best books I own.