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For myself, it is about control. It is a challenge to my every day life. I work three jobs, I go to school full time, I am responsible for so much and have to make every decision. Pretty much I feel as if I am in charge of everything. At the end of the day, I don't want to think anymore. I discovered shibari last year, which is a style of rope bondage. It was love at first sight. The act of submitting, being told what to do, being restricted in my movements...it feels so wonderful. It's almost like erotic meditation. I can let my mind forget the day, almost let it go blank. I focus on breathing, balance, and letting go. I have discovered through shibari that I enjoy giving control to someone else, (a very trusted and caring someone else), and I have found out things that I didn't know about myself. For example, pain can feel good. Being spanked, having pressure put on my neck (with hands, never rope), having my hair pulled, having hot wax poured...these are extremely pleasurable. Being tied up, put in very vulnerable positions, being exposed, it is a release of control and it just feels good to some people who have to be in control all the frigging time.

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I dated a feminist once who during the day was very strong willed and demanding. Behind closed doors she became EXTREMELY submissive. Love to be choked , spanked , smacked , degraded, tied down and fucked like a whore. the transformation was amazing. The sex was amazing as well.
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.it's mostly about relinquishing control. Not having to make decision. Being free with your sexual desires. Also being desired to the point of possession (but only in bedroom)

Release of control seems to be the point of it.
I guess it could kinda make sense.
The cuck couple I knew in Germany..
They guy was a mechanic by hobby..but was also in some form of law enforcement.
Maybe he got on the the lack of control he had over the situation..as oppose to his job



On the other hand I found this
http://www.ishootporn.com/476/aiden-and-...e-cuckold/

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I’ll skip to the interesting part: Aiden loved BOZ’s giant black meat. I mean she really loved it. I mean she really, really loved it. I mean she loved it more than just about anyone I’ve ever seen love a big black dick, and I’ve seen a lot of girls digging on black dick. She loved BOZ’s dick so much that, before long, BOZ’s big black dick was whiter than mine.

Pussy cum white.

Creamy white.

I’ve seen some creamed black dicks in my day – trust me. Between 150 (or so) Spring Thomas scenes, and another 200 (or so) Blacks On Blondes scenes, as well as some Spunkmouth interracial scenes under my belt, well…like I said, I’ve seen some creamy black dicks.

But nothing like this. As my literary hero RP McMurphy once said, BOZ made Aiden “light up like a pinball machine and pay off in silver dollars.”

I mean it was so bad I felt bad for hubby…with her eyes rolling up into the back of her head and all. And after you join Blacks on Blondes and look at hubby’s face, you’ll see what I mean. Cause deep down inside, Hubby knew he had never made Aiden feel like the way she was feeling that day…and he probably never would.

I say probably cause who knows?

About six months after I shot that scene, I ran into Aiden signing at a booth at AVN’s. We chatted it up a bit, and I asked her about Hubby.

“Oh, we’re finished. I’m divorcing him.”