When it comes to dancing (and most things in life for that matter) I think an important thing to note is a concept called:
"value exchange"
Are you going up to her with that thirsty look in your eyes? Like you want her to dance with you because you need to get laid so bad and she is so hot.
OR
Are you going to provide equal or more value to the interaction?
Basically people want to be around other people who add equal or more value to their lives. The same thing applies with game, dancing, etc... This is why no one likes hanging around with needy friends who do nothing but consume your energy.
On the D-Floor:
* Are you going to be adding to or reducing the fun she is having on the dance floor currently?
* Are you stiff and nervous because you "must have this girl"?
OR
* Are you relaxed, smiling, internally satisfied and happy regardless of the outcome and having a good time?
There is nothing wrong with having that sexual desire and acting on it. In fact I always encourage this.
Women spend hours in front of the mirror, picking out clothes, etc.. so she can find a guy to lust over and hopefully fuck.
What I AM saying is that this sexual desire tends to turn most men into stone faced killahs when they approach women, which they then pick up on immediately and begin to feel uncomfortable.
Not saying this is your situation. Just thought this was the appropriate thread to elaborate on this topic.
"value exchange"
Are you going up to her with that thirsty look in your eyes? Like you want her to dance with you because you need to get laid so bad and she is so hot.
OR
Are you going to provide equal or more value to the interaction?
Basically people want to be around other people who add equal or more value to their lives. The same thing applies with game, dancing, etc... This is why no one likes hanging around with needy friends who do nothing but consume your energy.
On the D-Floor:
* Are you going to be adding to or reducing the fun she is having on the dance floor currently?
* Are you stiff and nervous because you "must have this girl"?
OR
* Are you relaxed, smiling, internally satisfied and happy regardless of the outcome and having a good time?
There is nothing wrong with having that sexual desire and acting on it. In fact I always encourage this.
Women spend hours in front of the mirror, picking out clothes, etc.. so she can find a guy to lust over and hopefully fuck.
What I AM saying is that this sexual desire tends to turn most men into stone faced killahs when they approach women, which they then pick up on immediately and begin to feel uncomfortable.
Not saying this is your situation. Just thought this was the appropriate thread to elaborate on this topic.