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I am texting with a chick in advance of our first date and we had to postpone a couple of times. Actually she had to cancel twice and said that she will pay the drinks on our first date. So now we set up a date for tomorrow and now she notices that it is also her friends birthday party tomorrow. I think she feels bad to cancel/postpone again and hence she asks me if we want to go to her friend's party after we got to know each other (so like after 1 or 2 hours). Obviously that is not gonna help getting her into bed. So what shall i do? say no and postpone, or meet her and let her go to the party and meet her again another day or just go to party and check out if there is any better material?