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Dude, fuck the ability to keep your wife happy. You're from America. You should know enough dumbass men who parrot the whole "Happy wife, happy life" slogan and they're pretty much tripping over themselves to please their wives to the detriment of both husband and wife. That shit doesn't work and it never has. The more a husband acquiesces, the more the wife despises his lack of backbone and takes advantage of him. These men are fucking miserable and they hate their lives.
Well, I am FROM the USA, but I have lived abroad for at least 50% of every of the last five years. So, when I am in the US, I prefer fetish models - at least they are kinky and honest.
The idea of dating an American woman for the purpose of marriage ... feels like it would be a jail sentence. BUT I AM 49 YEARS OLD. That makes a little bit of a difference. Guys in my situation are living a second life - a DO OVER.
I do not necessarily disagree with your long post - but, I wonder sometimes if that type of thinking would be defeatist for a "Best & Brightest" male? I clearly see the shortcomings - believe me! I have only seen a handful of women in the last 2 months that have been thin, feminine, with attractive personalities. There is slim pickens in the US. Plus, the way society values a man is fucked too.
OK - I have thought about it enough. You are right! Only professional athletes with game, fame, and lotsa money have a decent shot in the US.