Even though this guy got banned, this thread still has its purpose.
But people shouldn't mistake "speaking their mind" with being a pessimistic asshole. Calling out something negative only carries weight when you are a generally positive guy. No one wants to be around a downer.
I know enough guys who complain about everything. It isn't "alpha" to make a catty remark to the minimum wage Burger King drive through worker. It's called being a dick.
If you aren't a complainer, speak your mind about the negatives. Just don't let it turn into incessant bitching.
But people shouldn't mistake "speaking their mind" with being a pessimistic asshole. Calling out something negative only carries weight when you are a generally positive guy. No one wants to be around a downer.
I know enough guys who complain about everything. It isn't "alpha" to make a catty remark to the minimum wage Burger King drive through worker. It's called being a dick.
If you aren't a complainer, speak your mind about the negatives. Just don't let it turn into incessant bitching.