What's the best way of ensuring a good girl doesn't become a bitter bitch after the breakup?
Last night around 2AM I broke up with my 8.5/10 gf of 8 months. Fell in love with her and stuff because she is really sweet and feminine. Had sex as often as possible and she was really considerate because I am a really horny dude. But recently our fights became really bad. I started receiving messages from some random girls I haven't heard from in ages, one of them asking me to do to drinks in a "give me attention and be my beta party guide". Unfortunately she saw it, and made a big deal out of it, asking me to "arrange a meeting with her for us so she can see what's my relation with her". I really didn't want to give some random half-known bitch my precious time that I want to spend with my gf so I firmly denied. She accused me that I am hiding something and the fight got so bad that I knew our tensions reached the breakup level. I told her it won't work anymore because it was the fourth fight over the same stuff in a week and a half.
This girl gave everything to me and now she is in emotional pain. She called me last night at 4AM from her mother's number and I felt like piece of shit hearing her cry so hard she couldn't say anything but painful "good luck my love". I probably failed some major shit test I am not aware of, but she really doesn't deserve the pain she is going through. I think I should've just fucked the shit out of her to make her forget about those messages, but logistics aren't really going to my favor recently (my place isn't available). What are your suggestions? Can I save my relationship? If not how can I save her from "I gave him all of it and he left me. I should've been a bitch so I'm now going to become one" mindset? I don't want to participate in a creation of a bitter feminist.
Last night around 2AM I broke up with my 8.5/10 gf of 8 months. Fell in love with her and stuff because she is really sweet and feminine. Had sex as often as possible and she was really considerate because I am a really horny dude. But recently our fights became really bad. I started receiving messages from some random girls I haven't heard from in ages, one of them asking me to do to drinks in a "give me attention and be my beta party guide". Unfortunately she saw it, and made a big deal out of it, asking me to "arrange a meeting with her for us so she can see what's my relation with her". I really didn't want to give some random half-known bitch my precious time that I want to spend with my gf so I firmly denied. She accused me that I am hiding something and the fight got so bad that I knew our tensions reached the breakup level. I told her it won't work anymore because it was the fourth fight over the same stuff in a week and a half.
This girl gave everything to me and now she is in emotional pain. She called me last night at 4AM from her mother's number and I felt like piece of shit hearing her cry so hard she couldn't say anything but painful "good luck my love". I probably failed some major shit test I am not aware of, but she really doesn't deserve the pain she is going through. I think I should've just fucked the shit out of her to make her forget about those messages, but logistics aren't really going to my favor recently (my place isn't available). What are your suggestions? Can I save my relationship? If not how can I save her from "I gave him all of it and he left me. I should've been a bitch so I'm now going to become one" mindset? I don't want to participate in a creation of a bitter feminist.