Quote: (08-14-2008 10:39 PM)Roosh Wrote:
"No you're right I don't want to have empty sex either."
There's a lot of ways to skin a cat but that's what I would have said.
Dealing with LMR is a balance between seeming like you don't want it while simultaneously progressing to the next stage. Like I teach in Bang, treat it like a video game and AGREE with her objections, while still pushing for it anyway.
The final piece of the puzzle is turning her to such a degree that she can't resist.. due to good kissing technique and the right level of inebriation.
Pulled a girl offline today and got her out to a bar, bounced to another, back to my house, and then LMR.
I'm trying to figure out at what stage of the pickup I inadvertantly planted the LMR seed.
Some suspects: Originally, I suggested we meet for an early drink, and she responded by asking if we could meet at 10pm. I said yes to this. Now, this is a Friday night, so did I just beta myself by agreeing to meet up on party night? I've been getting a lot of girls asking if we can meet on Fridays and Saturdays. I know it's not good for me to suggest that, but is it cool to do it if they suggest that they are available to meet?
I have a feeling that I also allowed to much PDA at the 2nd bar, and maybe this satiated her need for attention and made me look desperate or something.
That said, if I get her back to my house, does whatever happened on those early stages even matter? Is it like a videogame where once you pass a level, you start with a fresh energy bar despite what you were down to at the end of the previous levell, or can earlier missteps continue with you?
Also, should I even bother getting in touch with her again, or should I just move on? Would it be an escalation towards a bang or would I be setting myself up to get tooled because I let things get too far without accomplishing the bang.
Also, is alcohol always necessary? Another thing, does dry humping hurt or help get the bang?
This is sort of time sensitive as I am trying to rack up 20 bangs by the end of the year. I'm at 19 and don't want to waste time.