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(03-17-2013 01:20 PM)Menace Wrote:  

It goes without saying that you can't be a sad sack on the inside. Most communication is non-verbal, so if he's trying "game" but feels like a loser it's going to come off inauthentic and he will fail. Also, you have to WANT to talk to girls. You have to WANT to escalate and close. Game cannot fix any of that. Without the basic desire to put his dick inside her, game is utterly pointless. Moreover, I think more desire can compensate for weaker game to a greater extent than stronger game can compensate for weaker desire.

How do you guys motivate yourself? I often feel that it all requires way too much effort for too little reward I got my first ONS a couple of days ago and even that did not make me feel excited. I felt like "what's the big deal about it?"