Hey guys, I would like to know how to redefine how people view you.
I live on a very small campus of maybe 3,000 students and I'm very well known. In almost a negative way. I'm obnoxious and honestly don't give a shit about what anyone thinks about me. I'm think this could be greatly effecting my game and chances with any of these women. (Most of which who are feminists or lesbians so I wouldn't touch anyways)
But I walk around with music typically blaring from my headphones and drink from a pitcher at food service and everyone recognizes me for it. Some people comment on it at times and I know of a lot of people who associate me with negative things such as attention whoring or just annoying people.
So my real question is how do I redefine what people think of me here or should I even care when it comes to game? This is kinda just who I am and how I act. I have plenty of friends who it doesn't bother but what should I do?
Give up hope with these people or just wait til the freshman girls arrive next semester? I would transfer but I cannot afford to plus I'll be a junior next semester so it would be a bitch to anyways.
Thanks guys
I live on a very small campus of maybe 3,000 students and I'm very well known. In almost a negative way. I'm obnoxious and honestly don't give a shit about what anyone thinks about me. I'm think this could be greatly effecting my game and chances with any of these women. (Most of which who are feminists or lesbians so I wouldn't touch anyways)
But I walk around with music typically blaring from my headphones and drink from a pitcher at food service and everyone recognizes me for it. Some people comment on it at times and I know of a lot of people who associate me with negative things such as attention whoring or just annoying people.
So my real question is how do I redefine what people think of me here or should I even care when it comes to game? This is kinda just who I am and how I act. I have plenty of friends who it doesn't bother but what should I do?
Give up hope with these people or just wait til the freshman girls arrive next semester? I would transfer but I cannot afford to plus I'll be a junior next semester so it would be a bitch to anyways.
Thanks guys