I think you can do either and it can work. At least it has for me. I think it depends on you, the girl, and the situation.
This guy actually wrote a book about zero sexual interaction before you get back to someplace you can bang.
He believed you need to let the sexual tension build until she feels almost forced to release it and this is mostly
what I try to do but don't always succeed.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0042FZ...k_ro_title
This guy actually wrote a book about zero sexual interaction before you get back to someplace you can bang.
He believed you need to let the sexual tension build until she feels almost forced to release it and this is mostly
what I try to do but don't always succeed.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0042FZ...k_ro_title