[Beyond Borders]

(12-25-2012 11:25 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Of course this is from the begining of the relationship.
In a LTR is a must to bring ideas about places to go, people to meet and the like. Can I call the waiter and make my order by myself? Yes, I can! Let you doing so is my way to show you that you are important to me and part of my life. Just like putting the food on your dish when is finally served (not eating the cake and having too).

What really bothers me in men that I have been dating is the lack of security about themselves. They say amen for everything.

Let's face it. I've never been to your country, but the problems we complain about in the manosphere are just as much about men as they are women. Women have gotten harsh and overbearing - too manly. Men have gotten soft, insecure, and feminine.

That's the problem. We complain about women but our men are a huge part of it.

It's also why so many weak men who don't know how to take control see their girl running off with some "bad boy" who treats him like shit. Women are so deprived of true masculinity in today's society that they'll take it wherever they can get it.

The way I see it, you have a few options. You can keep waiting for a man to come along who delivers what you want - and you may want to analyze whether or not something about you is repelling that type of man or if you're rejecting that type of man's advances.

You can just accept the insecure guys you date for what they are and be the woman we all hate here at RooshV. You can just own him and love doing it. Like most women, this probably won't make you happy.

Or you can accept the best you're going to get is a balance. Nothing in life will ever be perfect, and even if you did have a man who took full control you can bet there are things you'd be unhappy about.

It's hard for us to advise your problems, Ms. Chocolate, because they are women's problems. We're used to dealing with the problems men face, so this is a tough one for us. Not to mention we just don't know your culture very well. Even with all the wusses in America, I think there are still quite a few manly men who would be willing to step up and take the lead.

Trying with a gringo seems like a good idea if your own men are really just a bunch of mama's boys. I also like the idea of going for someone a bit older. Whichever you do though, I really advise screening, unless you're just looking for casual sex (in which case stop being so picky and get it on already). By screening, you should be able to tell how a guy feels about male/female dynamics after a few dates. You're not going to get a man to be more masculine by changing him, so you'll have no choice but keep looking.

Or why not try a roll in the hay with a Roosher? It may be just the dash of masculinity you're looking for... we promise that if you come stateside for that very reason we won't label you a sex tourist.

Good luck and Game on.

(12-26-2012 02:13 PM)calihunter Wrote:  

What is dominance?:
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Credit - TrueStory http://www.theattractionforums.com/best-forum/

Epic. Thanks for posting that!

(01-03-2013 04:03 AM)soup Wrote:  

Aside from any personal connections that Roosh has with Mrs. Chocolate, how is she different from other women?

What makes her so special that she is the only woman who is allowed to post here?

(01-03-2013 04:21 AM)Asaxon Wrote:  

soup, I wonder myself! This thread is a pretty good depiction of some female behaviors people on here claim to despise and see through but magically accept now (name calling, shaming, wanting her cake and eat it, too, "grrrl power" remarks). There is even some whiteknighting in here. Very curious.

She's the forum pet. There can only be one.

(01-08-2013 10:22 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Expect for changes doing exacly the same things is crazyness.
There is no logical in that. If I am asking advices I need to collect the answers and apply in RL.

Surely something we could all learn from...