Primates females are known to get a good proportion of their sex through illicit fucking outside of their troupe.
It's true, different rules apply if you are an outsider. It even helps just to be from out of town within your own country.
The writer of the article elucidated this dynamic well, without reference to monkeys, and distilled the essence of "retain your out of town advantage".
The girl I live with now spoke almost no English when I met her. We got by using Google chat. After 7 consecutive years in Indonesia, I still don't speak Indonesian. I think I could do much better here if I did, but I agree with the guys mindset of just remaining an outsider. It's also a stance I'm psychologically comfortable with, and actually prefer.
It's true, different rules apply if you are an outsider. It even helps just to be from out of town within your own country.
The writer of the article elucidated this dynamic well, without reference to monkeys, and distilled the essence of "retain your out of town advantage".
The girl I live with now spoke almost no English when I met her. We got by using Google chat. After 7 consecutive years in Indonesia, I still don't speak Indonesian. I think I could do much better here if I did, but I agree with the guys mindset of just remaining an outsider. It's also a stance I'm psychologically comfortable with, and actually prefer.