Women’s Idea of the Perfect Man Changes Drastically as They Age, Survey Says
12-15-2012, 10:18 PM
Lets decode this in woman speak
He needs to be hot and he needs to be popular. I compete against my friends by playing the hot boyfriend game. I will also hook up, even if its only for one night, with the popular guy and its ok if other people know. His social status is my validation.
Fuck me lead guitarist, FUCK ME!
I need to settle down now and I deserve only the best. Who cares if I am 10 pounds overweight? I have a degree in marketing, Im a sassy girl and I am independent and successful. Cant they hear me roar?
I will not deviate from my 100 point checklist, although being the liberated girl I am I will continue to fuck the hot guys who cross my path, we are equality now! I will not be giving up my career for family either, no woman became CEO by giving her career up for 5 years while she raised children. Ill be managing career and family together.
Holy shit! WTF happened? Where has my life gone? No men are looking at me anymore and its only the older guys over 40 who seem to want me! I dont get this. I am smart, confident, independent and I have a succesful career. Im the ultimate catch. So what if I have a bit of pudge on me, real men are attracted to strong women like me regardless! Why wont a man settle down with me now and why cant these guys just grow the fuck up already? Where have all the real men gone?
With modern medicine I can have children into my 40's, whats the big deal anyway? I guess I am going to just have to start settling for the average older guys, even if I am not that attracted to them. Shit, if its this bad already, Ill be done if I am not married within the next 5-6 years. I guess Ill have to take the first one who comes along and figure out how I can explain it to myself and my friends. These are meant to be my child bearing years!
I need to make a plan quickly. My career is not going to well truth be told and its not what I expected it to be. I actually hate my job, its boring. These men would be lucky to have me in their life though, and if I can find any guy with a decent job Ill quit mine so I can have kids instead.
That will make me much happier anyway. Yes, lets drop the checklist down from 100 points to 50. I need to be realistic with these guys, after all these years I have realised that no one is perfect.
Work is so shit, I cant go back now. I have been out for too long anyway and the glass ceiling killed me because of the boys club, thats why I was jaded with it all. I think it would be better if my man could just support me and Ill take a more traditional role now for good now perhaps.
I dont know if I am happy though, I see all these younger hot guys looking at me and I just know that I could be having more fun on my own. I dont think this relationship is working anymore and my husband is not making me happy. If we split, I should be ok, because Ill get the house at least and with him earning more than me and the support I gave him over the last 10 years, I would be entitled to a decent alimony payment. We have just grown so far apart and I dont really know him anymore. He is not the man I married. Sally and Susan are out all the time and they seem to be having so much fun.
Also, I could swear that bastard husband of mine is...
This is not even worth it. Hahahahah.
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Age 18-24:
Women's main concern in their late teens and early twenties is that their partner gets along with their friends. "47 percent said they would look for a relationship with someone their friends would approve of."
He needs to be hot and he needs to be popular. I compete against my friends by playing the hot boyfriend game. I will also hook up, even if its only for one night, with the popular guy and its ok if other people know. His social status is my validation.
Fuck me lead guitarist, FUCK ME!
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Age 25-34:
At this stage in their lives most women are focused on their careers, but physical attraction and sexual compatibility are most important. They also consider a man's level of "ambition" to be important. Two-thirds of surveyed in this age group say this is a key trait.
I need to settle down now and I deserve only the best. Who cares if I am 10 pounds overweight? I have a degree in marketing, Im a sassy girl and I am independent and successful. Cant they hear me roar?
I will not deviate from my 100 point checklist, although being the liberated girl I am I will continue to fuck the hot guys who cross my path, we are equality now! I will not be giving up my career for family either, no woman became CEO by giving her career up for 5 years while she raised children. Ill be managing career and family together.
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Age 35-44:
Older men become more attractive to women in their late thirties and early forties, according to the study. This could be because they are looking to settle down and start a family, says Dr. Ruskin. "Women are mindful of their biological clocks ticking, which is why they want someone established, stable, and successful." They are no longer dating for attractiveness, for fun and to see where it goes, or for social fit with friends, she says.
Holy shit! WTF happened? Where has my life gone? No men are looking at me anymore and its only the older guys over 40 who seem to want me! I dont get this. I am smart, confident, independent and I have a succesful career. Im the ultimate catch. So what if I have a bit of pudge on me, real men are attracted to strong women like me regardless! Why wont a man settle down with me now and why cant these guys just grow the fuck up already? Where have all the real men gone?
With modern medicine I can have children into my 40's, whats the big deal anyway? I guess I am going to just have to start settling for the average older guys, even if I am not that attracted to them. Shit, if its this bad already, Ill be done if I am not married within the next 5-6 years. I guess Ill have to take the first one who comes along and figure out how I can explain it to myself and my friends. These are meant to be my child bearing years!
I need to make a plan quickly. My career is not going to well truth be told and its not what I expected it to be. I actually hate my job, its boring. These men would be lucky to have me in their life though, and if I can find any guy with a decent job Ill quit mine so I can have kids instead.
That will make me much happier anyway. Yes, lets drop the checklist down from 100 points to 50. I need to be realistic with these guys, after all these years I have realised that no one is perfect.
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Age 45-54:
The key word at this age is security. "95 percent of women said they were looking to find a partner with whom they felt secure." Women are also less picky at this age than at any other age, but still look for a man with a high income, which is always important to women no matter their age. Fascinatingly, 54 percent of women said they'd be interested in dating a younger man.
Work is so shit, I cant go back now. I have been out for too long anyway and the glass ceiling killed me because of the boys club, thats why I was jaded with it all. I think it would be better if my man could just support me and Ill take a more traditional role now for good now perhaps.
I dont know if I am happy though, I see all these younger hot guys looking at me and I just know that I could be having more fun on my own. I dont think this relationship is working anymore and my husband is not making me happy. If we split, I should be ok, because Ill get the house at least and with him earning more than me and the support I gave him over the last 10 years, I would be entitled to a decent alimony payment. We have just grown so far apart and I dont really know him anymore. He is not the man I married. Sally and Susan are out all the time and they seem to be having so much fun.
Also, I could swear that bastard husband of mine is...
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Age 55+:
Intelligence and personality comes to the forefront in later life. Women look for men who share their values and have a good sense of humor. Sexuality doesn't fall by the wayside, however. "45 percent of women strongly agreed that sexual compatibility was important to them in forming a relationship at this age." Women over 55 are pickier about their partners than at any other time in their lives.
This is not even worth it. Hahahahah.