So this is a thanks to Roosh and everyone at RVF, while I have a long way to go I'm seeing some results that plain and simple would never have happened before if I didn't stumble upon this forum...
Last night I'm playing Poker and this fly Cuban chick is dealing. Now back in the day I probably would have just stared at her fawning over her or showering her with praise for being pretty but instead I was teasing her, flirting with her, I even called her out one time when he said something somewhat disrespectful/mean (she wasn't serious but I let her know it wasn't kosher). A floor manager was even telling her at one point how he would wife her, provide for, fresh flower every day, etc. It was obvious to me she wasn't into that, she looked at me with a look like "can u believe this guy" and i just smirked, looking at her like i would destroy that pussy everyday. So when she's done dealing she says something like I should stop drinking or wait for her to get off so we could drink together... I see her with coat on leaving like an hour later, I beeline it to her and its on.
I don't remember what I said to her but its established we'll get a drink, she waits for me while I go back to get my chips. We go into a bar in the casino (She's allowed to but I get the sense it's not encouraged and she's only doing it to get to know me), we're having a good time, I'm making her laugh a lot and she's witty too so it's fun. She was asking a lot about me and while I told her a little bit I was generally being sarcastic and withholding the truth; she's 9 years older than me, I never told her my real age and I did the "I teach Dolphins to seek out mines" bit when asked about my job. She actually believed me and was very attentive as I BS'ed about it for 5 minutes. I DHV a little about sports and travel and she has some interesting stories too, I would say we're enjoying each others company. I escalated by putting my arm around her waist, grabbing her hands, knee/thigh at different times, even did the "fix her hair thing" even though that shit was on point (that really seemed to get her attention) and she didn't resist to any of it.
She was only going to have 1 drink but when the waitress asked for another she looked to me asking if she should have another I of course nodded in approval and she paid this time. At one point some tall drunk guy was standing about 4 feet away from us staring at her, it was really awkward and obvious as we were a bit secluded on couches. When I realized this I said to him something like "whatcha doing buddy?" He says "just chilling" or something so I said something like "why don't you go and chill somewhere else" and he went back to the bar without saying anything. I could tell she was impressed with how I handled it and I was even thinking how good it made me look.
After all that we get some food and its more banter, making fun of people etc. She actually wasn't going to sit next to me but I made a comment and she complied, sitting next to me as we ate. Long story short its like 5:30am, she has 2 kids and has to go. She gets up to throw out our tray + trash and I pull out my phone as she's coming back, she laughs saying something about me asking for her # and I just give her my phone with the contact screen up. She complies + gives me her #, she leans in for a kiss on the cheek, I point to my cheek and she complies again kissing it. At this point she makes a statement and motions about how I'm very demanding/authoritative/manly or something like that.
Some thoughts I have is spitting game really is fun and the women enjoy it too. I could tell she really enjoyed me taking control of everything allowing her to play her feminine role. Latin/foreign chicks are the way to go, soo much more feminine... I probably gave her 1 or 2 unnecessary compliments but I wasn't acting like she was the best thing since sliced bread either. I genuinely was acting and talking confidently like we would hang out again and do stuff together. I probably should have tried to kiss her when our faces were about 10 inches away and gazing into each others eyes at one point in the club, I think she would have pulled away because I was drunk but I still shoulda tried. She was a solid 7.5, maybe an 8 with such a cute laugh... I'm hooked to game.
I was thinking about texting her today to say it was nice meeting her, had fun and maybe I would see her next weekend (she lives like an hour away from me). Thoughts, critiques?
Last night I'm playing Poker and this fly Cuban chick is dealing. Now back in the day I probably would have just stared at her fawning over her or showering her with praise for being pretty but instead I was teasing her, flirting with her, I even called her out one time when he said something somewhat disrespectful/mean (she wasn't serious but I let her know it wasn't kosher). A floor manager was even telling her at one point how he would wife her, provide for, fresh flower every day, etc. It was obvious to me she wasn't into that, she looked at me with a look like "can u believe this guy" and i just smirked, looking at her like i would destroy that pussy everyday. So when she's done dealing she says something like I should stop drinking or wait for her to get off so we could drink together... I see her with coat on leaving like an hour later, I beeline it to her and its on.
I don't remember what I said to her but its established we'll get a drink, she waits for me while I go back to get my chips. We go into a bar in the casino (She's allowed to but I get the sense it's not encouraged and she's only doing it to get to know me), we're having a good time, I'm making her laugh a lot and she's witty too so it's fun. She was asking a lot about me and while I told her a little bit I was generally being sarcastic and withholding the truth; she's 9 years older than me, I never told her my real age and I did the "I teach Dolphins to seek out mines" bit when asked about my job. She actually believed me and was very attentive as I BS'ed about it for 5 minutes. I DHV a little about sports and travel and she has some interesting stories too, I would say we're enjoying each others company. I escalated by putting my arm around her waist, grabbing her hands, knee/thigh at different times, even did the "fix her hair thing" even though that shit was on point (that really seemed to get her attention) and she didn't resist to any of it.
She was only going to have 1 drink but when the waitress asked for another she looked to me asking if she should have another I of course nodded in approval and she paid this time. At one point some tall drunk guy was standing about 4 feet away from us staring at her, it was really awkward and obvious as we were a bit secluded on couches. When I realized this I said to him something like "whatcha doing buddy?" He says "just chilling" or something so I said something like "why don't you go and chill somewhere else" and he went back to the bar without saying anything. I could tell she was impressed with how I handled it and I was even thinking how good it made me look.
After all that we get some food and its more banter, making fun of people etc. She actually wasn't going to sit next to me but I made a comment and she complied, sitting next to me as we ate. Long story short its like 5:30am, she has 2 kids and has to go. She gets up to throw out our tray + trash and I pull out my phone as she's coming back, she laughs saying something about me asking for her # and I just give her my phone with the contact screen up. She complies + gives me her #, she leans in for a kiss on the cheek, I point to my cheek and she complies again kissing it. At this point she makes a statement and motions about how I'm very demanding/authoritative/manly or something like that.
Some thoughts I have is spitting game really is fun and the women enjoy it too. I could tell she really enjoyed me taking control of everything allowing her to play her feminine role. Latin/foreign chicks are the way to go, soo much more feminine... I probably gave her 1 or 2 unnecessary compliments but I wasn't acting like she was the best thing since sliced bread either. I genuinely was acting and talking confidently like we would hang out again and do stuff together. I probably should have tried to kiss her when our faces were about 10 inches away and gazing into each others eyes at one point in the club, I think she would have pulled away because I was drunk but I still shoulda tried. She was a solid 7.5, maybe an 8 with such a cute laugh... I'm hooked to game.
I was thinking about texting her today to say it was nice meeting her, had fun and maybe I would see her next weekend (she lives like an hour away from me). Thoughts, critiques?