Hey guys, wanted your input on something that has been frustrating me.
On Match.Com, I usually get the phone numbers of 80% of the women that message me back and go on dates with just about all of those numbers.
On the other hand, I have gotten exactly zero numbers off OKCupid from women that message me back. After asking for the number, I get no response back.
I run the exact same game on both: fun first message, 4 or 5 back and forth messages, then "hey, talking on a dating site is so lame, what's you're phone number"
Again, that works great on Match but has a zero percent success rate on OKCupid. What the hell am I doing wrong?
On Match.Com, I usually get the phone numbers of 80% of the women that message me back and go on dates with just about all of those numbers.
On the other hand, I have gotten exactly zero numbers off OKCupid from women that message me back. After asking for the number, I get no response back.
I run the exact same game on both: fun first message, 4 or 5 back and forth messages, then "hey, talking on a dating site is so lame, what's you're phone number"
Again, that works great on Match but has a zero percent success rate on OKCupid. What the hell am I doing wrong?