[Nomad77]

I understand where the OP is coming from and he has a valid point. What I can say from experience is that guys I have personally known that bangs a lot of girls usually have a very wide range. Sure, they would like to bang an 8 but if an 8 is not available they will just as well bang a 5. Obviously there are limits, the girl has to arouse you on some minimal level. Options such as turning out the lights and fantasizing can help.