Play 20 Questions. When you get to the sexual stuff, escalate and buzzkill in a push-pull fashion. Example:
Q: "What's the craziest place you've had sex?"
A: Hahah, the movie theater
buzzkill her:
Q: "What's your favorite color?"
A: um, Blue
re-escalation:
Q: "How many orgasms have you had in one night?"
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I quit online game, but whoever said that numbers only result from seriously long conversations is spot-on. Also, wait for a few positive exchanges before playing the question game.
Once you have the number, just text her until you make plans.
On the day of your plans, call her for the first time so she can hear your voice and feel comfortable. I also once had a girl ask to Skype me prior to meeting for the first time. This also works wonders, as you can develop a face-to-face chemistry before even meeting in person. Gives you plenty of inside jokes and fun things to talk about when you do meet.
Q: "What's the craziest place you've had sex?"
A: Hahah, the movie theater
buzzkill her:
Q: "What's your favorite color?"
A: um, Blue
re-escalation:
Q: "How many orgasms have you had in one night?"
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I quit online game, but whoever said that numbers only result from seriously long conversations is spot-on. Also, wait for a few positive exchanges before playing the question game.
Once you have the number, just text her until you make plans.
On the day of your plans, call her for the first time so she can hear your voice and feel comfortable. I also once had a girl ask to Skype me prior to meeting for the first time. This also works wonders, as you can develop a face-to-face chemistry before even meeting in person. Gives you plenty of inside jokes and fun things to talk about when you do meet.