Depends on the type of game you want to run.
- quiet bar
- 2 chicks under 120, 1 chick clearly over 150
- talking to themselves quietly
- it's just you, no wing man, no wing woman.
You want to
- get their attention
- open them up
- figure out the relationships between each other
- understand their group dynamic
- know the logistics (who drove who, who's sleeping where)
- disarm the war pig (or charm the war pig, nothing wrong with bbw bj !)
- figure out which of the 2 you want, and who wants you
They will probably hear all of your words, which means your standard drunk and hot girls spiel will have to come up a notch.
Whole situation is messy, but workable.
1. what I do - I make eye contact with the cute one, and use that as an excuse to get in their little group.
2. opportunist - wait for one to go off, and holler at her
3. gorilla - grab an arm, (hood tested, not approved for hipsters and professionals)
4. 2002 Mystery/style game - question, time constraint, opener, tease/banter, story, start to screen, neg/ignore, transition,isolate, comfort, rapport, move to sex location, overcome last minute resistance, bust a nut, set expectations.
5. Magnet Tar Pit Trap - talk loud, to someone a wing/bartender, so they can hear you, about something they can chime in on, and turn the mic to them. Draw them in.
6. Cunt Fu - Tao of the Dancing Monkey aka Flash Game
"OMG, COULD YOU 3 BE QUIET, ESPECIALLY HER"
her being the quietest one
"I'M TRYING TO HONOR ALL OF THE DEAD INDIANS"
*dramatic pause*
Transition into a laugh or smile, ice broken.
You can play a character and have them play along...but it's standard old school game.
7. Be Authentic - I think is 07 game, but basically
- you - "hey"
- them - "hey"
OPEN! You're "holding the frame". In your reality, it's okay to talk to strangers, even in quiet bars, nothing weird about that, and if you don't make it weird or come off weird, then it's not weird.
There's a million ways to play it, but unless you're Ed Norton, don't think that your acting is so good they don't realize that you're trying to fuck one or all of them. IME, you need to own it and never shy away from it.
Notches - it's a skill game, it's a numbers game, it's a persistence game, it's a logistics game..
Nowadays the real problems aren't quiet venues, but smart phones. On the one hand, good engagement of 1 or 2 of them, the other chick has her phone, but getting them broads to look up, and not keep checking it....
WIA
- quiet bar
- 2 chicks under 120, 1 chick clearly over 150
- talking to themselves quietly
- it's just you, no wing man, no wing woman.
You want to
- get their attention
- open them up
- figure out the relationships between each other
- understand their group dynamic
- know the logistics (who drove who, who's sleeping where)
- disarm the war pig (or charm the war pig, nothing wrong with bbw bj !)
- figure out which of the 2 you want, and who wants you
They will probably hear all of your words, which means your standard drunk and hot girls spiel will have to come up a notch.
Whole situation is messy, but workable.
1. what I do - I make eye contact with the cute one, and use that as an excuse to get in their little group.
2. opportunist - wait for one to go off, and holler at her
3. gorilla - grab an arm, (hood tested, not approved for hipsters and professionals)
4. 2002 Mystery/style game - question, time constraint, opener, tease/banter, story, start to screen, neg/ignore, transition,isolate, comfort, rapport, move to sex location, overcome last minute resistance, bust a nut, set expectations.
5. Magnet Tar Pit Trap - talk loud, to someone a wing/bartender, so they can hear you, about something they can chime in on, and turn the mic to them. Draw them in.
6. Cunt Fu - Tao of the Dancing Monkey aka Flash Game
"OMG, COULD YOU 3 BE QUIET, ESPECIALLY HER"
her being the quietest one
"I'M TRYING TO HONOR ALL OF THE DEAD INDIANS"
*dramatic pause*
Transition into a laugh or smile, ice broken.
You can play a character and have them play along...but it's standard old school game.
7. Be Authentic - I think is 07 game, but basically
- you - "hey"
- them - "hey"
OPEN! You're "holding the frame". In your reality, it's okay to talk to strangers, even in quiet bars, nothing weird about that, and if you don't make it weird or come off weird, then it's not weird.
There's a million ways to play it, but unless you're Ed Norton, don't think that your acting is so good they don't realize that you're trying to fuck one or all of them. IME, you need to own it and never shy away from it.
Notches - it's a skill game, it's a numbers game, it's a persistence game, it's a logistics game..
Nowadays the real problems aren't quiet venues, but smart phones. On the one hand, good engagement of 1 or 2 of them, the other chick has her phone, but getting them broads to look up, and not keep checking it....
WIA