Quote: (11-12-2012 09:16 AM)RichieP Wrote:
The ability to perceive reality accurately, and do what it takes or learn what you need to learn, to get where you want to go...
...AS OPPOSED to "wanting the world to be a certain way" and trying to impose your fantasy on reality (which doesnt work. I've tried)
Thank's richie this is very important I found it out the hard way and on of my most succesful friends from highschool toled me that all the Time.
Don't fall for Illusions
I am happy I found it out sooner than later since trying to change things' that you have no influence of is just delusional frustrating and doesen't help anyone.
I choose to increase my own quality of life instead of trying to drag people allong who don't actualy want to do what I do so no point for me trying to help people who don't truly want my help or don't know what they want.
Been there down that got frustrated by it and stoped doing it.
Beeing more honest to myslef and to other people is what I got out of it.