Quote: (10-20-2012 12:46 PM)houston Wrote:
Is it better to be a low key player or an obvious one?
Depends on the time span.
If you're going to have extended contact with a girl, low-key. Think work, social circles, etc. She's going to be on-guard against players where there are social repercussions, and she'll have to keep seeing you if things go awry.
If you'll never see her again unless you close, you can be more obvious. If you're just a normal guy, girls won't feel motivated to invite a stranger into their life and fuck him, because they already know plenty of normal guys.
There are normal guys that get laid, that I wouldn't necessarily classify as players. The biggest tell is simply a guy who enjoys talking about meeting and banging girls. Provided he's not lying.