Quote: (10-17-2012 10:39 PM)NoBalls Wrote:
I met this girl over the summer and we had sex twice although I have not seen her in a couple of months. She annoyed me back then because she is a pain in the ass.
She was gaming you with push-pull. Might have been unconscious. It worked and got you hooked.
Quote: (10-17-2012 10:39 PM)NoBalls Wrote:
I really don't like her.
You don't like her, you love her because she gamed you effectively.
Quote: (10-17-2012 10:39 PM)NoBalls Wrote:
We have tried to get together on a few different occasions but I always wanted to get together earlier and she wanted to get together later and stay up all night. I shut down that shit.
If you didn't get together, then "we" didn't try to get together.... . you wanted to, shefaked enthusiasm but wouldn't show.
She refused to do things on your terms, you were unable to control her, and you're convincing yourself you're incontrol.
Quote: (10-17-2012 10:39 PM)NoBalls Wrote:
The last time we got together, we had a few drinks. She kept on complaining the whole time about how boring I was and kept on telling me to liven up. She kept on telling me to talk more. I just shrugged my shoulders... She said yes, came over, fucked me, and then immediately left.
She leaves immediately because she doesn't love you. If she says you're boring, you're boring. Women don't have logical judgment they have Fun Meters and Vanity Meters. Just being willing to put out for her doesn't add that much to her Vanity Meter, if she happens to be horny and around it can temporarily add to her Fun Meter.
Quote: (10-17-2012 10:39 PM)NoBalls Wrote:
Today she texted me around 7:30 PM and I invited her over for some stupid reason. She texted that she would confirm in a few minutes and asked me what time.
I said around 9:30 PM. Then she asked what my address was and I texted it to her.
Now it's past 11:30 PM and she hasn't shown up.
Routine gamer text from her to keep you on the hook.
She is continuing to game you with push-pull, you've developed strong feelings for her and you are screwed.
Quote: (10-17-2012 10:39 PM)NoBalls Wrote:
...But I'd feel kind of guilty about that.
She wouldn't. She doesn't give a shit.
Quote: (10-17-2012 10:39 PM)NoBalls Wrote:
Perhaps I should answer and just pay for her cab home so she will go away. I'm thinking to myself that I'd rather get a good 8 hours of sleep rather than have sex with her.
If she doesn't show up, I will be relieved.
You've got quite a hamster of hope running there. SURE you don't want her to show up . On one level you realize it will be the start of getting over a chick who is not into you. ONe "no show" and you can't keep seeing the girl or you are her damn servant.
Three Rules of Deciphering Chick Words and Behavior
1) Never believe excuses.
1) Never believe excuses.
1) Everything a girl says until she's proven she seriously likes you is like a public relations announcement, always socially calculated. Total sexual submission is the only convincing communication they are capable of.
1) Never believe excuses.