Here in Ft. Lauderdale, I noticed that, a lot of guys (myself included) when they say "Oh MY GOD!! That girl is a LEGIT 10" they immediately place her on a pedastal which only ends up fucking their game up.
To try and correct my mindset I decided: I'm ONLY going to game 10s
Obviously, in daily life if I see an 8 or 9 that catches my eye, I'll flirt with them too because to me 8s 9s and 10s are one in the same (i.e. "Hot") but now (in my head,) when I see a 10 I'm unfazed by her because ... ... she's what I'm looking for.
I think has to do w/ congruency related to niche specific seductions: When I shoot, I shoot to kill.
What do you guys think?
To try and correct my mindset I decided: I'm ONLY going to game 10s
Obviously, in daily life if I see an 8 or 9 that catches my eye, I'll flirt with them too because to me 8s 9s and 10s are one in the same (i.e. "Hot") but now (in my head,) when I see a 10 I'm unfazed by her because ... ... she's what I'm looking for.
I think has to do w/ congruency related to niche specific seductions: When I shoot, I shoot to kill.
What do you guys think?