Quote: (08-14-2014 10:40 AM)robreke Wrote:
Ive been dating this girl for 2 months...about once to twice a week. Been raw dogging her. Im thinking of asking her if she is seeing other men and framing the main reason as because we have been having unprotected sex and I just want to know for my own benefit. I would ask in a non needy way but I do want to know. Is this approach okay?
for what its worth...we have both told each other we like each other and she calls me "love" alot. But no "I love you" yet.
If you've been raw-dogging her over a month it may be a bit late to use that as a pre-text for asking.
What is the purpose of asking her? Do you want an LTR with her? If so you can just start seeing her more and let it evolve that way naturally.
If she's contacting you first every day, trying to make plans, etc, then it's "less" likely she's banging someone else because she's probably really into you.
If she doesn't do those things then it is more likely another guy or two in the mix. Just speculation though.