[The Duke]

You say you want LTR, not just sex. What I've found is that you should start off a relationship as a fling and let the LTR come naturally whenever it comes. I dont know exactly what when wrong with your dating, maybe your dating game could use some work. Perhaps you are letting your intentions of LTR be known too soon? If so, that can give off a vibe of desperation which obviously is a turnoff.