Quote: (08-28-2012 09:47 AM)Menace Wrote:
Is it your apartment that's boring, or are you boring?
Agreed.
If you're doing passive stuff, expect her to act passively. Watching movies at home is just as bad as going to the movie theater on a "date" -- nix.
The laptop is great, so is an iPad (don't have notifications on unless you have tight jealousy-denial game). You want to be able to interact with her physically and emotionally but hold the strong hand.
I can't imagine a woman coming over just to watch movies; what is this, high school? If she's coming over, she's probably already prepared herself physically for the chance of sex -- don't lose your frame, and work the kino action. She came over, she wants more than movies.
Make yourself a solid YouTube playlist -- this is a go-to for many guys who aren't confident enough to get her into the bedroom within an hour of arrival.
My fear with this post? One-itis. If you invite a gal over, have a backup plan if she bores you. Kick her ass out if it's obvious she's giving you a cold reaction. You can try to freeze her out by hopping on your laptop and ignoring her, or you can just bounce her out the door and call up the backup and let her know it's her lucky night.