instead of separating her or fighting for pulling try game the group, have fun with them all, stay till the end of the night and just leave with her.
most of the time it's her friends who will make that pull happen, not you. you stay with them all night, you have fun and fuck around, leaving and coming back occasionally, at one point the club/bar becomes stale and boring, the energy of the place gets low, drinks sink it, her feet start to hurt, that's the most important moment. that's when you have to be strong/sharp (not drunk as fuck). the group will leave the place so you can leave with them all to afterparty or when they all split you stick with her and go to her place or take her to your place.
it's very smooth relaxed and consistent way for a SNL as long as she got her place or she's eager and not completely wasted to go to your place after her group split.
most of the time it's her friends who will make that pull happen, not you. you stay with them all night, you have fun and fuck around, leaving and coming back occasionally, at one point the club/bar becomes stale and boring, the energy of the place gets low, drinks sink it, her feet start to hurt, that's the most important moment. that's when you have to be strong/sharp (not drunk as fuck). the group will leave the place so you can leave with them all to afterparty or when they all split you stick with her and go to her place or take her to your place.
it's very smooth relaxed and consistent way for a SNL as long as she got her place or she's eager and not completely wasted to go to your place after her group split.