Hey all:
I just got back from my first drink date. I met this chick on a line in my college dining hall. I opened her, and quickly got her number after I threw in a false-time constraint. So we went out tonight for a drink at Brass Monkey (thanks to Caligula's great post). It started out good. We ordered drinks, and she did most of the talking. Also, she broke most of the silences. I did the fake palm read, ran the strawberry game, and tried the arm-hold move. She liked everything but would not grab my arm because she was smoking a cig when we started walking. Also, she offered to help me with the bill. I took $20 from her. I thought that she was into me so I asked her to come back to my place for a drink, and we could listen to a French musician (She said she spoke French). She did not respond. About a minute later, she said that we should grab some food. I said sure because I was hungry. I took her to this meatball restaurant that I liked.
I tried to touch her on the subway. We sat down and I put my arm around her. She slid forward after 30 seconds in order for my arm not to touch her. I took that as a bad sign. We continued to the restaurant. While we ate, she suggested that my friends and I should come out with her to a promoter driven club. I said maybe. She was nice but I think she lost interest on the street when she asked me about how I approach women. I said that I use elderly game like when a woman has her cell phone out. I ask her if that is a good phone. She said that this game would not work. I told her it works 10% of the time for me. She said have you ever banged your marks, and I said no. I just got some phone numbers. I think that turned her off. I should have said less. So after we get our meatballs, the bill comes. I grab it. She opens her wallet and offers to go dutch but I said that I can grab it, and she should cover the next one.
Then I walked her back, and asked her again if she would come back to my room. She said that she was going out to another place to eat with her friend. At this point, I reasoned that I can kiss her when we part. So I drop her back, and her friend is waiting there. I hug her (she did not give me the vibe), and again she mentions that we should go out with all our friends this weekend to a promoter driven club. I made an error and I am realizing it now: I should have venue changed to another club where we could dance. Damn it. I think I could have banged her with that.
My question: Should I (a) go out with her friends and my friends this weekend? This would sabotage my chances of banging her because I would be thrown into the friend zone. Also, it would be good to go to a club with female friends because they can help to ease the tension with other women who you wish to bang. Should I (b) text her Saturday night and tell her and her friends to come where my friends and I are? Should I © never contact her again? Keep in mind that I am still a virgin, and I entered game in February 2011. I realize that this is a performance art (like public speaking), and the more times you get thrown into the fire, the better. Also, I have another date with an older woman (24) at a lounge in Queens tomorrow so I am not upset about this one. I am 22. Any help will be greatly appreciated about this past date and any tips for tomorrow's drink date. I know that I am on the right track!
I just got back from my first drink date. I met this chick on a line in my college dining hall. I opened her, and quickly got her number after I threw in a false-time constraint. So we went out tonight for a drink at Brass Monkey (thanks to Caligula's great post). It started out good. We ordered drinks, and she did most of the talking. Also, she broke most of the silences. I did the fake palm read, ran the strawberry game, and tried the arm-hold move. She liked everything but would not grab my arm because she was smoking a cig when we started walking. Also, she offered to help me with the bill. I took $20 from her. I thought that she was into me so I asked her to come back to my place for a drink, and we could listen to a French musician (She said she spoke French). She did not respond. About a minute later, she said that we should grab some food. I said sure because I was hungry. I took her to this meatball restaurant that I liked.
I tried to touch her on the subway. We sat down and I put my arm around her. She slid forward after 30 seconds in order for my arm not to touch her. I took that as a bad sign. We continued to the restaurant. While we ate, she suggested that my friends and I should come out with her to a promoter driven club. I said maybe. She was nice but I think she lost interest on the street when she asked me about how I approach women. I said that I use elderly game like when a woman has her cell phone out. I ask her if that is a good phone. She said that this game would not work. I told her it works 10% of the time for me. She said have you ever banged your marks, and I said no. I just got some phone numbers. I think that turned her off. I should have said less. So after we get our meatballs, the bill comes. I grab it. She opens her wallet and offers to go dutch but I said that I can grab it, and she should cover the next one.
Then I walked her back, and asked her again if she would come back to my room. She said that she was going out to another place to eat with her friend. At this point, I reasoned that I can kiss her when we part. So I drop her back, and her friend is waiting there. I hug her (she did not give me the vibe), and again she mentions that we should go out with all our friends this weekend to a promoter driven club. I made an error and I am realizing it now: I should have venue changed to another club where we could dance. Damn it. I think I could have banged her with that.
My question: Should I (a) go out with her friends and my friends this weekend? This would sabotage my chances of banging her because I would be thrown into the friend zone. Also, it would be good to go to a club with female friends because they can help to ease the tension with other women who you wish to bang. Should I (b) text her Saturday night and tell her and her friends to come where my friends and I are? Should I © never contact her again? Keep in mind that I am still a virgin, and I entered game in February 2011. I realize that this is a performance art (like public speaking), and the more times you get thrown into the fire, the better. Also, I have another date with an older woman (24) at a lounge in Queens tomorrow so I am not upset about this one. I am 22. Any help will be greatly appreciated about this past date and any tips for tomorrow's drink date. I know that I am on the right track!