If all you need is a camera to take snapshots of girls and random stuff, you don't need a DSLR. Kinda like buying a Porsche just to go to get back and forth to the supermarket. Save the DSLR shots for artsy stuff that would go in a gallery or National Geographic. The best compact point and shoot camera on the market is the Canon S90. If you want something slightly bigger and maybe a bit more featured, the Canon G11 is awesome too. I'd stay away from DSLRs unless you have a true need for one, like if you can explain what F-stops are and how you use them to get narrow depth of field. If you have no idea about any of that stuff, just get a high end yet compact point and shoot like the S90. Plus it's easier to throw in pocket and bust out in the club and take a spontaneous shot with some girls than some huge brick of a camera with different lenses and shit.
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