Great Paul Janka interview on why he dislikes nightclubs:
K: I want to bash American nightclubs (the exception is if you are a great dancer - go there to display your skill.) Nightclubs are all about Submission: guest list, line, drinks line, cover charge, coat check, toilet-person tip, costly drinks and tips. DJ's, promoters and bouncers control everyone. As a favor, “the Sage” did an entire podcast blasting US nightclubs as potentially damaging to the ego of a man.
PJ: Nightclubs and bars have too few women, and too many average-looking women. Too many men. I let loose at one recently, with A-Game, yet these low-rated women resisted me. Huge “push-back,” huge egos, they get on cloud nine in clubs. A man with eyes would walk by these women, but there, that night, I can't get attraction! At 3 pm in a coffee shop, I can rap and get a number in 90 seconds, and get a “booking” follow-up call. She'll return my text and agree to meet for a date.
K: Conditions and context - the environment. Where and when you meet often trumps everything else, and sets her state and defenses.
PJ: I agree. The problem with nightclubs: cattle treatment. You wait in line like a criminal, you overpay for drinks, and you might get drink-hustled. With their women pals, they sometimes are unavailable to engage. They are only there to give men the “tease treatment,” from what one girl I dated told me. At 3 am, she would leave the club and her pals, and come over to get sex. She had a “sex guy” in her back pocket—me—and no use for what she called “Club Guys.” In their world, “be fabulous, be a rock starlet.” Worst of all, men must be competitive with other men, even fight, while women skip lines and pay nothing. I've worked both bars and clubs a lot. I know. K
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K: I want to bash American nightclubs (the exception is if you are a great dancer - go there to display your skill.) Nightclubs are all about Submission: guest list, line, drinks line, cover charge, coat check, toilet-person tip, costly drinks and tips. DJ's, promoters and bouncers control everyone. As a favor, “the Sage” did an entire podcast blasting US nightclubs as potentially damaging to the ego of a man.
PJ: Nightclubs and bars have too few women, and too many average-looking women. Too many men. I let loose at one recently, with A-Game, yet these low-rated women resisted me. Huge “push-back,” huge egos, they get on cloud nine in clubs. A man with eyes would walk by these women, but there, that night, I can't get attraction! At 3 pm in a coffee shop, I can rap and get a number in 90 seconds, and get a “booking” follow-up call. She'll return my text and agree to meet for a date.
K: Conditions and context - the environment. Where and when you meet often trumps everything else, and sets her state and defenses.
PJ: I agree. The problem with nightclubs: cattle treatment. You wait in line like a criminal, you overpay for drinks, and you might get drink-hustled. With their women pals, they sometimes are unavailable to engage. They are only there to give men the “tease treatment,” from what one girl I dated told me. At 3 am, she would leave the club and her pals, and come over to get sex. She had a “sex guy” in her back pocket—me—and no use for what she called “Club Guys.” In their world, “be fabulous, be a rock starlet.” Worst of all, men must be competitive with other men, even fight, while women skip lines and pay nothing. I've worked both bars and clubs a lot. I know. K
http://www.cliffslist.com/node/536