Quote: (06-20-2012 03:36 PM)Aske Wrote:
Pretty simple/elemental question here - that somehow I tend to usually fuck up, so I wonder what you guys say about this: how to say goodbye to a girl (mainly your gf)? I am not talking about ending a realationship or whatever, but simply saying farewell after some time spent together before goinf homre / whatever.
On simple whatever occassions with girls I dont really know/care about a simple and bold "bye, see you later" does the work. No need for complex emotional games / whatever, and also.. why for? Serves no purpose, but on the other hand, if you are in a relationship with a girl.. then what?
I think for now I overdramatize the whole thing or how should I say.. I want her not only to have an image of me as "such a bold guy¤" - with walking off - but ending it with some romantic touch so she is glowing walking away.
So we both go home with a good vibe, and not in some awkward feeling.
I guess the key lies somewhere between shortness.. connection, playfulness? some basic emotional acrobarics I fail so far to synthesize properly except for a 1/10 ratio of the time..
This sounds like a teenage girl wrote it.
Think about Humphrey Bogart or James Bond.
I tend to be on the aggressive side. Something to the effect of grab her by the back of her head and grip her hair near the roots. Give her a solid smash on the lips, say, "Later toots" and give her a firm smack or squeeze of the ass. Occasionally I've gotten complaints from gfs that I'm too sexual, in which case I always say, "Okay, I'll just drop my physical attraction to you entirely then." Sets em straight real quick.